It doesn’t matter if you are a student, an employee or even both at the same time. To be successful at studying or working, you need to take your well-being seriously. By well-being, I mean your health and happiness. Your health isn’t just about your physical health but also your mental health and the two are very closely linked. It’s all too easy when you are busy or stressed to neglect your well-being and then bad-stuff™ happens. This chapter looks at your well-being, and how you can nurture it. Because looking after yourself now will also nurture your future. 😀
By the end of this chapter you will be able to:
- Identify some of the symptoms of mental ill health in yourself and your peers, particularly anxiety and depression
- Describe five self-help techniques for improving mental health
- Describe services and other people you can approach if you (or someone you know) is being affected by mental ill health and self-help isn’t enough
- Schedule activities for improving mental and physical health into your daily or weekly routine
One of the main target audiences for this textbook is Generation Z, that’s people born sometime between the mid-nineties to early 2000’s. There’s some evidence to suggest that Gen-Z-ers like you have a higher probability than previous generations of being, as The Economist puts it:
- Exam obsessed
Are you stressed? Depressed? Exam obsessed? Are you more worried about getting good grades than drinking too much or having unplanned pregnancies? According to The Economist members of Generation Z are more likely to be affected by mental health issues. (Anon 2019a) If that’s you then you are not alone. Stress, depression and results obsession have been around a while. Many people struggle with them so let’s look at them in a bit more detail.
⚠️ Coding Caution ⚠️
I am neither a medical doctor or a psychologist!
This chapter is based on my personal experiences of clinical depression, antidepressants and the experience of close friends and colleagues who have been affected by generalised anxiety disorder. So this chapter gives you a quick overview of mental health and points you to where you can find out more.
If you are affected by mental ill health, you should speak to a trained professional.
Stress can lead to many kinds of ill health. Turing was put under lots of stress by his government bosses, people like Alastair Denniston and Stewart Menzies. (Tyldum 2014) When asked why he punished himself so much in training (see figure 3.1), Alan Turing’s reply is shown in figure 3.2.
University is a positive experience for many people, however like Alan, you may also experience periods of stress. This may also be accompanied by anxiety, loneliness and depression. Financial, social and academic pressures alongside concerns about employability, fallout from COVID-19, war in Ukraine and climate change etc can all have an impact on your wellbeing. Statistically, one in four of us will be affected by mental ill health during our lifetime. Two of the most common forms of mental ill health are:
- Anxiety: persistent feelings of unease, such as worry or fear
- Depression: a low mood that lasts for a long time and affects your everyday life. Being affected by depression is not the same as feeling sad
The persistent and lasting a long time are important here because while its part of the human condition to worry and feel sad, that doesn’t necessarily mean you are affected by poor mental health. How long is a long time? Definitions vary, but around two weeks is a good rule of thumb. There are many forces (\(F\)) at play, feelings of sadness or anxiousness are normally balanced out by counteracting feelings of calm or happiness shown in figure 3.3:
- Forces that make you unhappy: \(F~SAD~\)
- Forces that make you happy: \(F~HAPPY~\)
- Forces that make you anxious: \(F~ANXIOUS~\)
- Force that make you calm: \(F~CALM~\)
It might help to conciously list what these forces are so that you are more mindful of them.
Anxiety is one of most common mental health disorders and can lead to depression, increased risk of suicide. Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), a common form of anxiety is explained in the video in Figure 3.4 and at nhs.uk/conditions/generalised-anxiety-disorder. People who are affected by anxiety may struggle to function normally, and find routine everyday task difficult or impossible.
Millions of people around the world live with depression. If you are affected by depression it can be really hard to talk about it as there are many social stigmas around mental health. Thankfully depression is largely preventable and treatable. Recognising depression and seeking help is the first and most critical step towards recovery. To mark World Mental Health Day writer and illustrator Matthew Johnstone tells the story of how he overcame the “black dog of depression” in the video in Figure 3.5 made in collaboration with the World Health Organization (WHO).
A common issue with poor mental health is that the people affected often don’t realise they need help, partly because of the social stigmas that prevent people talking about mental health in the first place. Computer Scientist Dave Cliff explains how he recognised he was being affected by poor mental health in figure 3.6
Just talking about mental health issues is an important step in removing the social stigmas that surround them.
Prescription medication can help some people with their mental health. For example, when I was affected by depression, Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs) worked for me, shown in Figure 3.7, but they don’t for everybody. Sometimes the drugs don’t work, they just make you worse. (Ashcroft 1997)
Some doctors prescribe benzodiazepines for anxiety, which may be effective where SSRI’s are not, but these can be addictive and have big side effects.
It is worth considering cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) before taking any medication. The Science of Wellbeing (TSOWB) at coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being is an easy way to access some CBT free online, see the signposts section (section 3.8) at the end of this chapter. (Santos 2022b)
If you’re feeling suicidal, you don’t have to struggle with difficult feelings alone. If you’re suffering from emotional distress or struggling to cope a Samaritan can face your problems with you. Whatever you’re going through, samaritans.org are available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. They respond to around 10,000 calls for help in the UK every day. No judgement. No pressure. Call them free any time, from any phone (in the UK) on 116 123. It’s important to talk to somebody, see figure 3.8.
Suicide is the biggest killer of under 35’s in the UK. Like many young men, Ian Curtis in figure 3.8 tragically took his own life when he was just 23 years old. Globally, over 700,000 people die due to suicide every year, see who.int/health-topics/suicide. Every life lost to suicide is a tragedy because suicide is preventable, by talking and listening. If you’re feeling suicidal or you know someone who is, don’t suffer (or let others suffer) in silence. Check out the resources in section 3.6.4 and 3.6.5.
Looking after yourself can serve to both prevent and treat mental health issues that can affect you in life. You might be your own worst critic, or perhaps when you’re under pressure you neglect things that are proven to be beneficial for your mental health, like sleep, exercise, mindfulness and friendship. Looking after yourself means at least three things:
- being mindful of your feelings and learning to manage your inner critic
- being kind to yourself in various ways
- deliberately scheduling protected time to do the non-work things that matter.
- Exercise: getting regular exercise improves both physical AND mental health.
- Gratitude: research shows that being grateful can significantly improve your mental health. One way to do this is by keeping a gratitude journal, a log you fill in everyday of things you are grateful for. This can include both the small and big things in life.
- Sleep: actively developing healthier sleep patterns. Poor sleep hygiene can be both cause and effect of poor mental health. See the discussion of Why we sleep (M. Walker 2018) in section 3.8
- Socialising: give a higher priority to spending time with friends and family. There is good evidence to show this will make you happier than turning inward or diving deeper into work which could just make you more stressed, depressed or anxious (Marchese 2022)
Mindfulness: be mindful of emotions using the R.A.I.N. technique:
- Recognise: negative emotions
- Accept: accept and allow emotions rather than fighting or ignoring them
- Investigate: notice how the emotion feels inside your body
- Nurture: be kind to yourself, step away from your emotions by distancing yourself from them.
It can help to think of negative emotions as coming from another person, an inner critic, rather than yourself. You are not your emotions and thoughts. Laurie explains the R.A.I.N. technique in figure 3.10.
The techniques described by Santos are not merely trashy pop psychology but scientifically proven techniques. (Yaden et al. 2021) So there are some simple things you can do to help yourself, but you may also need to seek help from others.
Sometimes a desire to be productive by overworking has exactly the opposite effect, because the sacrifices you make for work can be counter-productive. If you burn too brightly you might burnout completely, see mentalhealth-uk.org/burnout. 🔥
Sacrificing sleep, socialising, exercise and time-out to recharge your batteries can make you less productive, especially in the longer term.
"Don't work too hard!" says Paul Nurse.— The Nobel Prize (@NobelPrize) January 25, 2022
We especially hope that the medicine laureate isn't working too hard today as it is his birthday. Nurse received the 2001 #NobelPrize in Physiology or Medicine for his work related to discoveries of key regulators of the cell cycle. pic.twitter.com/9RJgKP3Kia
I’m not saying don’t work hard. Like Paul Nurse, I am arguing that you shouldn’t work too hard:
“if you really want to be good you musn’t work too hard. If you work too hard just hard all the time you will keep going in the same direction. One big advantage of taking some relaxation is it makes your brain come down and then you come and look at it freshly. When you take off the pressure, to go off and go and walk for day then you can imagine new things.”
If you’re making to many sacrifices to get the grades you want, ask yourself, is it really worth it. See section 1.6, 2.4.1 and read Is a first class degree really that important? You may need to recalibrate your relationship and expectations of work to either recover from burnout, or stop burning out in the first place (Santos 2022a)
If you are affected by mental ill health, particularly anxiety or depression, it can be hard:
- to recognise that you need help in the first place
- to help yourself using self-help resources
- to ask others to help you
Even if you don’t need help, it is important to recognise and understand the symptoms of mental ill health. It’s quite likely that someone you know will suffer from mental health issues and as their friend or peer, it might be you that can help by encouraging them to get the help they wouldn’t otherwise ask for.
You are not alone, help is available if you (or your friends) need it from a wide variety of sources:
There are lots of people who can help you:
- your personal tutor or other academic members of staff
- non-academic staff in the University, for example in Manchester contact the Student Support Office (SSO) studentsupport.manchester.ac.uk
- counselling services, for example contact counsellingservice.manchester.ac.uk. The counselling service offers help on dealing with anxiety, depression, exam stress, confidence and other issues.
- peers, flat-mates, family, friends etc. People close to you can help, although some people affected by mental health find it easier to discuss mental health with a trained professional or volunteer because of the social stigmas. There are lots of services outlined below that provide this kind of service.
As a student studying in the UK you are entitled to access free healthcare provided by the National Health Service (NHS) of the United Kingdom. To do so you’ll need to be registered with your general practitioner (GP), see nhs.uk: Getting medical care as a student
Your doctor can advise you on medical treatment if required, see for example nhs.uk/conditions/antidepressants
Nightline nightline.ac.uk is a confidential listening and information service run by students for students. Nightline is open 8pm till 8am every night during term time. It offers anonymous, non-judgmental and non-advisory support for students as described in figure 3.11.
The Samaritans are a charity who provide emotional support to anyone in the the United Kingdom and Ireland that:
- is suffering from emotional distress
- is struggling to cope
- is at risk of suicide
The name of the charity comes from the Parable of the Good Samaritan although the organisation itself is not religious. The Samaritans are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, to talk confidentially about any problem, however big or small. See samaritans.org or telephone 116 123.
Papyrus believe that many young suicides can be prevented, they are a national charity that you can find out more about at papyrus-uk.org or telephone the free number 0800 068 4141. See their application stayalive.app
Students Against Depression (SAD) acknowledge the devastating impact that depression can have on those experiencing it, as well as on their friends, family and supporters. For further help in understanding and coping with suicidal thoughts, and emergency contacts in a crisis, visit studentsagainstdepression.org
Actor Ruby Wax has written about mental health and how the “internal critics” in our minds can send us mad in her book Sane New World. (Wax 2014b) She is interviewed by Students Against Depression in the video in figure 3.12 about using mindfulness to “dodge the bullets” of depression.
Self-Help services are a mental health charity which helps people to help themselves, see selfhelpservices.org.uk or phone 0161 226 3871.
MIND provide advice and support to empower anyone experiencing a mental health problem. They campaign to improve services, raise awareness and promote understanding of mental health issues. Find out more at mind.org.uk and in the video in figure 3.13
Student Minds empowers students to look after their own mental health, support others and create change, find out more at studentminds.org.uk and in the video in Figure 3.14 which describes why it is important to talk about student mental health.
Togetherall is an online community for people who are stressed, anxious or feeling low. The service has an active forum with round-the-clock support from trained professionals. You can talk anonymously to other members and take part in group or 1-to-1 therapy with therapists. Togetherall is for anyone aged 16 or over who wants to improve their mental health. The service is free for many universities. Find out more at togetherall.com and in the video in figure 3.15 which describes why its important to talk about student mental health.
(ref:togetherall) A quick look inside togetherall, an online community for people who are stressed, anxious or feeling low. You can also watch the 1 minute video embedded in this figure at youtu.be/mXEbpaU9YjU (togetherall 2020)
Learning at University can be hard because you might have gone from being at (or near) the top of the class in high school to no longer being top of the class at University.
Likewise the job hunting described in chapter 8 can take a heavy toll on your mental health because repeated rejection is an ordinary part of the process. It can be time consuming, stressful and demoralising. You may find your applications disappear into a black hole. They will be ghosted (ignored) by employers. Interviewers will blank you and refuse to give you meaningful feedback because they’re too busy. This could happen multiple times. This is all par for the course, normal and expected, and is not necessarily a reflection on your abilities or potential. See the examples in the coding interview section 10.2.3. (Davidova 2021)
Adopting a growth mindset can be a successful strategy for maintaining your wellbeing, see figure 3.16. If your grades aren’t has good as you hoped or your search for employment is being met with repeated rejection, a growth mindset can help. Let’s take rejection from potential employers as an example, there are two ways you can react to it:
- Fixed mindset: responding with a fixed mindset will mean you are likely to take rejection personally. You might even assume that this confirms what you’ve always suspected. You’re not good enough or that you made some fatal mistake in your applications or interviews. Ouch.
- Growth mindset: by responding to rejection with a growth mindset, you focus on what happens next. Rejection is not failure but a “not yet” described in figure 3.17. Maybe you’re not yet ready for that employer, but you’ll definitely have a good idea of what you learned from the process and how can you do better next time.
According to Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck we can all be placed on a spectrum describing where we think our abilities come from. At one end, the fixed mindset assumes all kinds of abilities are fixed traits while at the other end, a growth mindset assumes these abilities can be developed over time. (Dweck 2017) There is good evidence that adopting a growth mindset will make you a better learner who can cope with the inevitable failures and rejections in life better. This approach can be used in a range of different disciplines such as learning programming languages (Cutts et al. 2010), music (Davis 2016) and job hunting.
This chapter has looked at your wellbeing and especially the role that both your mental health and physical health play in your future. Matt Haig’s first-hand accounts of poor mental health will be comforting to anyone who is affected by mental ill health. Even if you’re not affected, there is a 25% chance you will be at some point in your life. There’s also a high probability someone close to you will suffer from mental health issues. It might be a colleague, friend, family member, fellow student or partner, so it is worth educating yourself on the issues by reading his two short books:
- Notes on a Nervous Planet is a personal account of anxiety (Haig 2019)
- Reasons to Stay Alive is a personal account of depression (Haig 2016)
What’s good about Matt Haig’s books is they are quick and easy to read, but give plenty of first-hand insight into what mental ill-health can do to people (including you). Matt describes his top five tips for good mental health in figure 3.18
There’s plenty of evidence that social media can have a detrimental effect on health. Jaron Lanier’s skeptical polemic Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now (Lanier 2018) is a thought-provoking romp through some of the pitfalls of social media that may have you reaching for the delete or un-install button fairly quickly. You don’t have to be on social media, see figure 3.19.
If all these books are making you sleepy, neuroscientist Matthew Walker’s Why We Sleep: The New Science of Sleep and Dreams may change your view on the importance of a good nights sleep. (M. Walker 2018)
Finally, it’s well worth taking a look at Laurie Santos course on The Science of Wellbeing (TSOWB) at coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being. (Santos 2022b) TSOWB course provides an alternative to medication as it follows the principles of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT).
TSOWB is the most popular course at Yale University and looks at some simple techniques you can use to improve your happiness. (Shimer 2018) The course will help you increase your happiness and build more productive habits. Using the latest research, Santos describes the misconceptions about happiness and “annoying features” of your mind that can impair your well-being. The course takes about 19 hours to complete but you can spread this over a whole semester (or longer) if you choose. The short clip in figure 3.10 gives you a brief taster of Laurie’s style and work.
Let’s pause here. Insert a breakpoint in your
code and slowly step through it so we can examine the current values of your variables and parameters.
* PAUSE ⏸️
- How would you describe your own state of mental health?
- Do you have friends or peers who are affected by mental ill health?
- What are the signs they might be suffering?
- How could you support or help them better?
- If you describe your own mental health as poor
- Where can you go for self-help?
- You are not alone but who can you talk to?
* RESUME ▶️
Too long, didn’t read (TL;DR)? Here’s a summary:
Anxiety and depression are serious conditions that are very likely to affect you or somebody close to you while you are at University. There’s a one in four chance that you will be affected by mental health issues at some point in your life.
We’ve only talked about two particular mental health issues, anxiety and depression, but there are many other conditions such as phobias, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), eating disorders, self-harm and more that are beyond the scope of this chapter. They do have one thing in common, and that is that talking about them is an important part of starting to develop better mental health. Mental health can affect everyone, all genders, classes and races.
If you are affected by mental ill health, talking about it is the best place to start, but often the hardest. You can continue by:
- Accepting yourself for who you are, see chapter 2
- Learning to identify and challenge unhelpful thinking patterns
- Avoiding the trap of compare yourself to other people too much
… are three more steps you can take to help yourself, see figure 3.20. In this chapter, I’ve outlined some ways you can help yourself alongside some of the services and people you can talk to if you need to.
Despite how you might feel, you are not alone.
Nurturing your future is Coding your future.